Next the team started to ween all medications that are not needed for when she is at home. As the team made changes Mike and I started studying all the things we will need to know for her care. I have to say it is overwhelming, but Mike just seems to make it all okay. He tells me that it will be overwhelming until we do it and then it will just seem like nothing. We have been watching and learning all along. Just to get a glimpse into her care, here are the things we have to know:
- use a feeding pump
- put in an NG tube and check for placement (this is how she gets food).
- use an oxygen pump (Lucy will come home on oxygen to keep her saturation over 75%)
- draw and administer medicine
- speech therapist (teaching her how to take a bottle, her suck/swallow reflex has to be taught since she was intubated after birth)
- physical therapist (teaching her how to move and that all movement doesn't hurt)
- occupational therapist (most of her experiences have been negative and we have to teach her that she can be safe outside of a swaddle)
- know any signs of distress while teaching (when she is overloaded with stimulus she feels out of control and we have to stop so that learning doesn't become a negative experience)
- know her red flags
Last but certainly not least we still have to be her parents. Sometime it escapes me that on top of all the stuff we need to teach her (that most babies develop automatically) we still just need to be her mom and dad. We hope that when we come home and transition to life outside the hospital this will be easy and all the things listed above just become routine.
She has come so far...she finally found her hands and was able to do tummy time without getting upset.
As we move closer to going home we ask that you pray for Lucy's continued progress and for a easy transition to home living. And maybe some added strength for Mike and I as we become her full time care givers.
You both are already the best parents I know! Lucy is lucky to have you. We continue to pray for all every day.
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